Signing a lease or mortgage together doesn’t give either of you free range to become a Messy Bessy. Respect the space you are sharing, even if you have been living together for years. Pick up after yourself. Put things away when you’re finished using them. Clean up a mess you make. You’re mama doesn’t live here (well perhaps she does but in any case you’re an adult with a lease or a mortgage and you should be able to deftly tackle a basic skill like cleaning up after yourself.)
Since February is the month of love, let's talk about how to keep the passion fires burning in your home and avoid frigid fights over a cluttered home.